A Royal Fit

Parenting 3 daughters as a single parent isn't the part I find most difficult, though it is hard some days. It is managing, and organizing and storing the clothes that fit, and those that don't. Keeping the house not only picked up, but cleaned up. I don't check the girl's rooms or their bathroom (shared by all 3) everyday, so when I find the rooms or the bathroom a pig sty I kind of get angry. Especially since the loan appraisers (reason for the ladies comment "you must feel overwhelmed sometimes" it was really code for "boy you sure live in a messy house") came thru the house 4 days ago and the girls bathroom had stuff spilled on the floor (I noticed it today) and the rug was filthy and they all had seen it yet no one thought they should take it upon themselves to clean it up....Cleaning, like really cleaning, this house this time around has been kind of an eye opener for me. I have been preaching everyday about doing things on their own instead of always expecting me to remind them to do their daily chores. They are called daily chores because yeah, they are done daily. In 1 year the people living in this house doubled, and I don't really feel that I have adjusted to the doubling in organization or cleanliness and it really shows sometimes. I must be in a bad place right now. I hate my weight and I hate how out of control I feel over the amount of mess I deal with everyday. There is never no end to it, clean today, start all over tomorrow.....OK, I'm done throwing a fit!!! I think......